1 Cor. 13:4-8 - 1. is patient under stress. 2. is kind at all times. 3. is generous, not envious. 4. is humble, not self-promoting. 5. is never rude. 6. does not manipulate by using shame. 7. is not irritable or easily offended. 8. celebrates honesty. 9. does not focus on what is flawed. 10. is loyal to the end.